How To Stop Masturbation and Other Immoral Sexual Behaviours.

4 Key Steps To Stopping Masturbation:

Masturbation and other related immoral sexual acts has become a social and moral burden to so many persons who has been caught in its web. Different persons have different beliefs about masturbation, bestiality, homosexuality and other forms of immoral sexual acts, some even have different reasons they hold so dearly why they indulge in these acts. However, no matter how you think your reasons are justifiable for indulging in them, it’s a total moral depravity because they do not follow the natural way of getting sexually aroused and satisfied. Humanbeings naturally are made to get sexually aroused by the body of the opposite sex, and get that sexual satisfaction through copulation, anyway other than this is depravity and alien to natural law and reasoning. And anything that acts in disobedience to natural laws must have consequences. let’s consider some of the side effects of masturbation.

Masturbation is the act of sexually arousing oneself or with the help of others, or through watching pornographic pictures with the aim of satisfying one’s sexual urge, which most times culminates in the release of semen. Masturbation done by oneself has so many side effects. One of the consequences, is pollution of the mind. The act of Masturbation comes from the mind. Before you can masturbate and get yourself sexually aroused, your mind must be involved. You must be or must have been engaging your mind on immoral sexual sexual thoughts for your body to get triggered for the action. And while you’re engaging in the act, there must be constant reflections of sexual scenes to aid the process, and this is the reason a lot of persons watch pornography while masturbasting.

This frequent engagement of the mind on immoral sexual thoughts and sex scenes pollutes your mind, and a polluted mind is socially, morally and emotionally unhealthy. Spiritually, masturbation brings guilt and makes you unclean before God. You’re also spiritually caught-off from God, because man is made up of spirit, soul and body.

Masturbation affects your soul, which is the real you and your spirit, which is God’s. Another negative effect of masturbation, biologically, it reduces your libido and your desire for the opposite sex, because your mind has been conditioned to accept the abnormal way of sexual satisfaction. No wonder, a lot of men and also women do not get sexually attracted to their partner, even when they do, they do not last at least 60seconds. Masturbation lowers your libido, sexual desires for your partner and causes quick ejaculation in most cases. For a man, frequent masturbation weakens your sex organ, and makes you inactive. Masturbation, bestiality and homosexuality has a long term spiritual effect. A lot of persons has become entangled with demons and spirit beings because of these unwholesome and immoral acts.

4 key remedies to masturbation and other immoral sexual acts:

1. Decision: When it comes to stopping masturbation and other forms of immoral sexual acts, your decision matters as a person. The decision to stop it Lie’s with you. You alone must take that decision, as no one can help you without you trying to help yourself by making that decision. You may not know when it became a habit and you may have been engaging in it in ignorant, but now that you’re aware of the consequences, the onus is on you to take a decision to stop it. Nothing worthwhile can be achieved without a desire and decision to achieve it. Consider the aftermath effect of engaging in these immoral acts and avoid sacrificing your spiritual, social, moral and sexual wellbeing on the altar of immoral sexual gratification.
2. Guard Your Thoughts: The urge to indulge in any wrong habit must start from your thoughts. Before you carry out the act of masturbation, the thought of sexual immorality must preceded it. It must first crop up in your mind probably when you’re alone or with someone who lures you into it. No action takes place without first a conception. So, in other to stop and prevent the act from happening, always resist the thoughts and avoid succumbing to the temptation of engaging your mind in the immoral thought or allowing it to fester. If you allow it to fester, it has a way of taking over your mind and once your mind is inundated with the thoughts, you’ll have no option but to yield to the act. Always guard your thoughts and what you conceive in your mind.
3. Go outside/flee: Masturbation and other acts of immoral sexual behavior are usually done in our closets, most times when we’re alone. So when the thoughts starts cropping up, and the urge starts getting intense and you feel that you may not be able to continually resist it, the wise and reasonable thing to do, is to go outside, leave or flee that environment. Our thoughts are very powerful, and emotions are stronger than reasoning, to the extent that if we do not take a drastic step to cutting them off, they’ll overtake our actions. When there’s a conflict between our thoughts on whether to do what is morally wrong or not to do it, such that relates to our emotion and sexual satisfaction, the best thing to do, is to flee and abandon that place for that moment.
4. Take a 21 days trial: Habits are formed within twenty-one consecutive days of practicing an act. Any habit that is not formed within twenty-one consecutive days can easily be broken. Since it takes 21 days to form the habit of masturbation, it will also take 21 consecutive days of not practicing it to brake it. Give yourself a twenty-one consecutive days trial or test without engaging in masturbation, the urge will gradually disappear.